One of the instructions we were given upon arrival in Kiev: Check in with the U.S. Embassy ASAP. We forgot. Imagine our surprise to meet three embassy employees dining at the same restaurant we chose to dine tonight. A coincidence? Well, maybe. It is St. Patrick's Day and we were at one of two "Irish" pubs in Kiev........
Since we still can't go to the orphanage, this is a good chance to cover some of the interesting notes about the city of Kiev and Ukrainian culture in general.
This building is directly across from our building. It looks a lot like ours. You can see the balcony of ours in the foreground (the blue color is clothesline). The ceilings in our apartment are 12 feet high with 10 feet high windows. We have newly tiled bathroom, a kitchen (with no oven - aw, too bad), a living room with a sofa bed and bedroom with a double bed. The location of our apartment is practically in the middle of Kiev.
Housing - With a popluation of 3 million and virtually no suburbs - most people live apartments. In the newer part of the city (the East side of the river) the buildings are high rise or sky scrapers each one gleaming white, pristine and redundant looking except they make landscape striking in appearance. Almost like cities in Asia. On the West side of the river - where most people live - buildings have the european charm and most are older than their counterparts in the U.S.
The National Opera House
Cars - A high majority of cars are brand new. Many luxury models and not one truck or SUV. The city 'buses' are basically extended vans.
Fashion - Clothing: Black, light black, dark black, medium black. A few bright colors in a scarf or sweater and absolutely no brown. Coats: leather all of the time and most have fur trim for men and women. Almost zero layering like the 'boho' look in the states. A few jeans - loose on men, skin tight on women. Short skirts for women, suits with no ties for men. Footwear: boots, booties and more boots mostly with towering or platform heels. Mens shoes are pointy and long. No white tennis shoes anywhere. Hair: straight, straight, straight - short or long.
T. Shevenko University - popular and well attended by Europeans in general.
Food - Russian is prominent and favored. McDonald's is next in popularity. Too poplular as in long lines day and night . It is a hangout for the 20 somethings - every table packed, a meeting place after work. I am guessing it's the only fast food place in Kiev. No Starbucks - Tea is the drink of choice here. Chinese and Italian restaurants are prevelant too but most natives say they don't like either food.
People - Quiet, rarely smiling, very reserved, more passive, rarely laughing. When annoyed or frustrated they will talk faster but not louder. Even with our windows open we do not hear people on the street or even next door. At the orphanage even when the kids play it only gets to be a quiet rowdy.
History - monuments, statues, buildings - too numerous to name - some remembering WWII, others independence from the Soviet Union and still others commemorating its 1400 (6th century) years of existence.
Lucas standing on a graffiti riddled playstructure at the park.
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
The picture on the left is St. Sophia's Cathedral. It sits on top of the hill behind our apartment ringing light and lovely chimes each hour.
The picture on the right was taken this morning about 5 minutes after we took the first one. Both places are on the walk from our apartment to the adoption center where we had our appointment this morning. We will have the distinct pleasure of seeing this statue again on Monday! Yes, due to the delay in one signature from a local official we have another appointment scheduled at the adoption center. These things happen. We pray, we trust and we make them interesting blog fodder!
Ah, no, those two handsome guys are not the local color! It's Dave and Lucas standing in the foreground of the river Dnipro, a huge waterway that flows from Russia through Ukraine to the Black Sea.
Another big adventure today took us from our apartment to the 'super' market. We have not been in a grocery this huge where every sign, label and price sticker is written not only in another language but another alphabet. A short list took us a good hour.
Add to that LA size traffic and we were gone a total of almost 3 hours for a 7 mile drive. The orphanage driver's name is Sergei and he drove us there and back. He deftly drove the tighest lines, swerving like a ballerina and jumping into u-turns while not one swear word or sound passed his lips. A couple of times we cheered "Sergei aht-pot!" (Sergei super!) He laughed.
And, finally for today - the reason we are we here - he's the one in the middle holding the rabbit:

That's all for now.
The picture on the right was taken this morning about 5 minutes after we took the first one. Both places are on the walk from our apartment to the adoption center where we had our appointment this morning. We will have the distinct pleasure of seeing this statue again on Monday! Yes, due to the delay in one signature from a local official we have another appointment scheduled at the adoption center. These things happen. We pray, we trust and we make them interesting blog fodder!
Ah, no, those two handsome guys are not the local color! It's Dave and Lucas standing in the foreground of the river Dnipro, a huge waterway that flows from Russia through Ukraine to the Black Sea.
Another big adventure today took us from our apartment to the 'super' market. We have not been in a grocery this huge where every sign, label and price sticker is written not only in another language but another alphabet. A short list took us a good hour.
Add to that LA size traffic and we were gone a total of almost 3 hours for a 7 mile drive. The orphanage driver's name is Sergei and he drove us there and back. He deftly drove the tighest lines, swerving like a ballerina and jumping into u-turns while not one swear word or sound passed his lips. A couple of times we cheered "Sergei aht-pot!" (Sergei super!) He laughed.
And, finally for today - the reason we are we here - he's the one in the middle holding the rabbit:
That's all for now.
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Another quick one, alas! It is 11 PM and we have an early meeting at the Adoption Center so we need to sleep! We are excited for this next step in our journey - the first legal steps as far as Ukraine is concerned. We will be with our attorney, Viktor. A warm, gregarious, quick-witted and intelligent man that has a passion for the adoption process.
We spent almost 4 hours at the orphanage today. The drive took about 45 minutes (Kievites drive like New Yorkers!) and we were all pretty quiet feeling kind of like it does when you go to visit someone at the hospital. But when we got there not a all! The reunion with Sasha was electric - as if no time had passed. Now, on his turf, he proudly gave us a tour. The building is well-planned with a warm feel. It sits in the midst of an area that looks very broken compared to parts ofUkraine we have seen so far.
We saw some of the kids from last summer but it was a school day plus they have teachers come in the orphanage for other classes so all the children were very busy. We will be there every day we are told so I am looking forward to seeing and visiting with all the children. Lucas ditched us most of the time to be with Sasha and play with the others. They welcomed him with open arms - a truly delightful group of children. Another adopting family from Conneticut was there. They are adopting their second fromUkraine bringing their total of children to 6 (their oldest biological child is 25).
Thank for prayer and support and encouragement. Love getting the emails, love getting the blog comments. I look forward to a steadier pattern in the next few days so we have more time to write indivdually and collectively. Plus pictures!
Time to go. I want to stay up and write more though! Please pray for the internet situation - Dave's laptop is rejecting the internet connection and that literally effects business. We have battery recharge power now - Igor, the coordinator, had the right adapter - thank you Lord!
We spent almost 4 hours at the orphanage today. The drive took about 45 minutes (Kievites drive like New Yorkers!) and we were all pretty quiet feeling kind of like it does when you go to visit someone at the hospital. But when we got there not a all! The reunion with Sasha was electric - as if no time had passed. Now, on his turf, he proudly gave us a tour. The building is well-planned with a warm feel. It sits in the midst of an area that looks very broken compared to parts of
We saw some of the kids from last summer but it was a school day plus they have teachers come in the orphanage for other classes so all the children were very busy. We will be there every day we are told so I am looking forward to seeing and visiting with all the children. Lucas ditched us most of the time to be with Sasha and play with the others. They welcomed him with open arms - a truly delightful group of children. Another adopting family from Conneticut was there. They are adopting their second from
Thank for prayer and support and encouragement. Love getting the emails, love getting the blog comments. I look forward to a steadier pattern in the next few days so we have more time to write indivdually and collectively. Plus pictures!
Time to go. I want to stay up and write more though! Please pray for the internet situation - Dave's laptop is rejecting the internet connection and that literally effects business. We have battery recharge power now - Igor, the coordinator, had the right adapter - thank you Lord!
Monday, March 14, 2011
Monday, March 14, 2011 Ukraine
This will be fast - it's 10:30 here and this our first chance to get connected since we packed the laptops yesterday. It's been a whirlwind of travel to be sure. Our biggest concern (?) right now is that none of the adapters we brought to convert the wattage for the laptops will work (our power cords are 3-prong). So, until tomorrow when we get to a computer store we have limited battery.
Highlights:
We get to see Sasha tomorrow!! Lucas burst into Spongebob's "It's the Best Day Ever".
Lucas was a dream traveler and he LOVES this city.
Kiev is beautiful and full of iconic contrasts - it is gorgeous.
The travel was hectic but full of grace.
All 10 of our checked and carry-on bags arrived on time and safely.
We sped through customs and immigration.
This dream is coming true and we all feel it.
Highlights:
We get to see Sasha tomorrow!! Lucas burst into Spongebob's "It's the Best Day Ever".
Lucas was a dream traveler and he LOVES this city.
Kiev is beautiful and full of iconic contrasts - it is gorgeous.
The travel was hectic but full of grace.
All 10 of our checked and carry-on bags arrived on time and safely.
We sped through customs and immigration.
This dream is coming true and we all feel it.
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Saturday, March 12, 2011
Trying to think of the top 10 things that are better than packing the night before a traveling......
#10 - vacuuming the house
#9 - doing laundry
#8 - cleaning the garage
#7 - organizing the storage room
#6 - paying bills
#5 - overseeing homework
#4 - picking up other people's dog do-do
#3 - getting the annual medical exam
#2 - cooking
#1 - getting teeth pulled
And if things could better - the clock says: 10:59 PM but DST begins tonight so it's really 11:59!
#10 - vacuuming the house
#9 - doing laundry
#8 - cleaning the garage
#7 - organizing the storage room
#6 - paying bills
#5 - overseeing homework
#4 - picking up other people's dog do-do
#3 - getting the annual medical exam
#2 - cooking
#1 - getting teeth pulled
And if things could better - the clock says: 10:59 PM but DST begins tonight so it's really 11:59!
Friday, March 11, 2011
Friday, March 11, 2011
One of those mornings.
One of those great mornings.
Lucas sat at the top of the stairs stretching wide to shake off the sleep and said "I had a dream last night that we were getting on the plane to Ukraine!" And then: "How many more Zaftras (tomorrows)?"
After breakfast it was time to call Sasha - 5:00 PM in Ukraine - close to suppertime. After the usual pleasantries he said the adoption coordinator told him we were coming to Ukraine. Sasha said "My go to America and Mommy, Poppi and Lucas my forever family, yes?" Funny how to words like "forever family" can say it all. He proceeded to boast about how he doesn't have to go to school while we are there. The next questions (the ones that occur more than any other): "Me play soccer America? And me sport bike and karate?"
One of those great mornings.
One of those great mornings.
Lucas sat at the top of the stairs stretching wide to shake off the sleep and said "I had a dream last night that we were getting on the plane to Ukraine!" And then: "How many more Zaftras (tomorrows)?"
After breakfast it was time to call Sasha - 5:00 PM in Ukraine - close to suppertime. After the usual pleasantries he said the adoption coordinator told him we were coming to Ukraine. Sasha said "My go to America and Mommy, Poppi and Lucas my forever family, yes?" Funny how to words like "forever family" can say it all. He proceeded to boast about how he doesn't have to go to school while we are there. The next questions (the ones that occur more than any other): "Me play soccer America? And me sport bike and karate?"
One of those great mornings.
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Thursday, March 10, 2011
In light of many unexpected moments that needed attention today - some in the realm of health for Lucas and Dave - it is fitting to close the day with Psalm 116:17 I will offer to You the sacrifice of Thanksgiving, and will call upon the name of the Lord!
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